Thursday, January 27, 2011

Making the most of each day: Caregiver survival tactics


This is one of my favorite spots. I always loved this building and conservatory. It reminds me of the one Emily Dickinson's father had built for her on the side of the Homestead in Amherst, because of her love of nature and plants. Sadly it was torn down by the new owners at least 100 years ago. This one lives on in Troy, NY. The architecture in Troy is magnificent and goes back over three centuries. The Collar City was part of the Industrial Revolution, bordering the Hudson and Mohawk Rivers.

This building always makes me smile and think of other times. Architectural history in New York is fascinating. Many of the old mills and factories are being turned into high priced condos or very luxury apartments. I took this picture last week through a window of a hospital Bill visits occasionally. I always love the view from that window, and I was excited to have my camera handy on this snowy day.

As a friend said to me earlier in the year, life is just about being there when the opportunity arises. I couldn't agree more. So the caregiver tactic for today is think of yourself not as someone who is taking care of someone  but sharing life with them, and find that live in the small things that give you joy. Like this conservatory.

4 comments:

  1. You have an eye for fascinating images. Thanks for the photograph and for the information on NY history.

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  2. The conservatory is divine! I once had a catalog of conservatories one could have built at the turn of the century. Such a genteel thing, the conservatory. Thank you for snapping this lovely photo and, of course, for your appreciation of the view. Wishing you another such delightful moment today!

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  3. Fitting, too, because Emily Dickinson and her sister, Lavinia, were caregivers for their mom, an invalid during her last seven years. Ginger, I will link to this on our Emily Facebook page a little later in the day.

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  4. That's exactly right--caregiving is about sharing life with someone.
    Thank you, Ginger. I really like the photograph as well as this insight.

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